Dating Advice

A Little-Known Secret to Attracting and Keeping a Man

By Mimi Tanner

A very effective way to get or regain a man's interest is to show him the "social proof" that you are a desirable woman.

"Social proof" has been around since men and women started chasing each other. It's more than jealousy - it's a way of presenting and packaging yourself to show - or to make it appear - that others find you attractive.

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It's just human nature to find someone more appealing if when we see proof that other people think they're something special!

Your man needs to see you being pursued by other men, or at least highly likely to be pursued by other men, even if you are "his." He needs to see you as fun, friendly, and carefree.

Men like their choices of women to be validated in their minds. With a gorgeous woman, that is validation enough, because that is a language all men understand - so one form of social proof is to make yourself as attractive as possible. Men know automatically that an attractive woman will be pursued by other men.

One way to do this is to use photos on Facebook or in your online dating profiles which show you with other people in a happy social situation. Keep such photos in your home and office, too.

Once he has seen the "proof," it is much easier to keep or regain your man's interest.

Your life should be rich, happy, and full - of people and interests. Maybe this will help jumpstart you in that direction, if you need some encouragement to enhance your life.

When your life IS rich, happy, and full, you will automatically exude the confidence that is an integral part of attracting men.

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