Dating Advice

Love and Dating Advice

By Kara Oh

If you're looking for love, you're not alone. Most adults are either in a relationship or actively seeking one. That's because it just feels so good to be in love! So what's a girl to do if she hasn't found love yet? The answer is: date. You can't expect the love of your life to just fall into your lap while you're sitting on the couch. You have to get out of the house and go on dates.

In many ways dating is a numbers game, and you have to be in it to win it. If you date often, you are bound to have some bad experiences. There are going to be a lot of people you don't connect with or that might even turn you off. The important thing to remember, though, is that if you don't have a chance to weed through the bad ones, you'll never find the gems. Imagine how many worthless pieces of rock have to be unearthed before a diamond is discovered. Love is just like that.

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Because the instinct to be in a relationship is so strong, sometimes people go about it in the wrong way. For example, some women try to be overly charming or agreeable so as not to turn off a man. Or, a woman will fake an interest in a hobby or sport to connect with her date. The problem is, there will come a time when the real you will inevitably surface. When that happens, the man you fooled will feel deceived as to your true nature.

The only way to begin a relationship is with honesty. You have to be true to yourself and project a real version of yourself to your date. Moreover, you have to be fair to yourself and only pursue a relationship that you expect will be a happy and solid one. Don't be so eager to find love that you settle for less than you deserve. The information in Men Made Easy by Kara Oh can help lead you to a loving relationship that lasts.

Kara Oh is the best-selling author of numerous relationship books including Men Made Easy, Marriage Made Easy, and Women Made Easy.

Kara has been interviewed on hundreds of radio and TV shows across the country in cities like New York, Atlanta, Las Vegas, Chicago, and Philadelphia, and signed books in bookstores in every major (and a few not so major) city. She has featured in magazines like Cosmopolitan and Women's World. She is an enlightening and entertaining public speaker and has traveled to all the major US cities sharing her insights about what makes men tick and how to create amazing relationships.