Simply stated, romance is showing the one you love that you truly appreciate and value them.
Here are some ways to kick the romance volume up a notch:
Gifts
The worst thing you can do is forget a birthday, anniversary, holiday, or some other special occasion. These are timeslots built into the calendar year to help you show your love and appreciation for your honey.
The minimum requirement is to remember and give a gift and / or do something special together. You can either meet the minimum requirement, or show extra thoughtfulness and effort to make the occasion extra special.
Surprises
Surprises are one of the easiest ways to be romantic. All you have to do is treat the day as if it were a birthday or Valentine’s day without being prompted by the calendar. Give a gift or handwritten letter of appreciation “just because I wanted you to know how much I love you.” Keep his or her interests in mind and surprise him or her with tickets to a concert or musical. Be spontaneous. Make a special effort to express your love even when your calendar doesn’t tell you to.
Affection
Walk up to her and kiss her or hug her. Sweep her off her feet.
Show him how much you love him with a hug and kisses. Give him a massage.
Combine your affection with the element of surprise.
Affirmation
Affirmation is like affection except that affection is shown while affirmation is said. When employing affirmation for a romantic moment, tell the person with words how much they mean to you.
Write a love letter telling her what you appreciate about her.
When he needs encouraging, encourage him.
When one of you achieves a goal, celebrate together.
Remind one another that your lives are complete and happy because you are together.
Tim Spooner is the author of The Newlyweds’ Guide to a Happy Marriage

